Mortgage Advice to Help You Through a Separation

Tanya Toye • May 8, 2024

With the latest stats claiming that about half of marriages end in divorce and with around three-quarters of Canadians being homeowners, it’s important to know how to handle your mortgage if you decide to separate. Here’s a quick list of things to consider.


Keep making your payments.


A mortgage is a legally binding contract between you and the lender. It doesn’t take marriage into account. If your name appears on the mortgage, you're responsible for making sure the regular payments are made. A marital breakdown does not give you an excuse not to make your mortgage payments.


If, during your marriage, you've relied on your spouse to make the mortgage payments and you aren’t certain payments are being made after separating, it's in your best interest to contact the lender directly to verify your mortgage is being paid. If payments aren't being made, it could affect your credit score or worse; the lender could start foreclosure proceedings.


There is always a financial cost to break your mortgage.


When working through how to split your finances, you decided to either refinance your mortgage, remove someone from the title, or sell the property, keep in mind that you will incur legal costs.


If you’re in the middle of a term, the penalty for breaking your mortgage might be significant, especially if you have a fixed-rate mortgage. It’s certainly worth contacting your mortgage lender directly to verify the cost of breaking your mortgage. Having that information accessible when writing out your separation agreement will provide increased clarity.


Listing your marital status as separated or divorced.


When completing a mortgage application for securing new mortgage financing, when you list your marital status as separated or divorced, you can expect that a lender will want to see your legal separation agreement or your divorce papers. The lender wants to make sure you aren’t responsible for support payments. So if you haven’t finalized the paperwork, expect delays in securing mortgage financing. 


It could be harder to qualify for a new mortgage.


With the separation of assets also comes the separation of incomes. If you qualified for your existing mortgage on a double income, you might find it hard to maintain the same quality of lifestyle post-separation.


This is where careful planning comes in. Working closely with your independent mortgage professional will ensure you understand exactly where you stand. You’ll want to put together a plan for how to handle the mortgage on the matrimonial home.


Purchasing the matrimonial home from your ex.


There are special considerations given to people going through a separation to buy out the matrimonial home. Instead of looking at the transaction like a refinance where you can only borrow up to 80% of the property’s value, lenders will consider one spouse buying out the other up to a 95% loan to value ratio. This comes in handy when dividing assets and liabilities.


Navigating the ins and outs of mortgage financing isn’t something you have to do alone. If you're going through a separation and you’d like to discuss all your mortgage options, please connect anytime. It would be a pleasure to walk you through the process.

Tanya Toye

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The Rise of Multi-Generational Homebuying

By Tanya Toye • May 23, 2026
As home prices continue to challenge affordability, more families are exploring creative ways to make homeownership possible. One option that has been growing in popularity is purchasing a single-family dwelling together. For some families, this approach can create opportunities that may not have been achievable individually, while also offering practical support across generations. Multi-family homeownership is not a one-size-fits-all solution but, in the right situation, it can work extremely well. Parents helping adult children enter the housing market, siblings purchasing together or families combining resources to care for aging relatives are all examples of scenarios where shared ownership can make sense. In many cases, a single-family dwelling or full duplex tends to be the preferred property type for this arrangement. Whether the property is freehold or leasehold, these options often provide the flexibility, privacy and living space families are seeking. A full duplex, in particular, can offer a balance between shared ownership and independent living, allowing family members to live close together while still maintaining separate spaces and routines. Combining incomes and down payment resources may improve purchasing power and help families qualify for properties that better meet their long-term needs. Shared expenses such as utilities, maintenance, property taxes and mortgage payments can also reduce the financial pressure that many households are currently experiencing. Careful planning required Purchasing property jointly is a major decision and requires careful planning. It’s important for everyone involved to have open conversations about finances, responsibilities, future plans and expectations before moving forward. Questions around ownership structure, exit strategies, inheritance considerations and ongoing costs should all be discussed early in the process. Legal and financial advice can be extremely valuable to ensure everyone understands their rights and obligations. Lenders will also evaluate the overall application differently when multiple borrowers are involved. Income sources, credit history, debt levels and the intended use of the property all play a role in financing approval. Working with you mortgage broker can help families understand available options and how to structure the purchase appropriately. For some families, buying together may provide a practical path toward stability, affordability and long-term wealth building. While it may not be the right fit for everyone, it’s becoming an increasingly common strategy for families looking to support one another and navigate today’s housing market together. Wondering if multi-generational living is right for you? I’m here to help explain all your options. 604-788-8693 | tanya@tanyatoye.ca

Why a Mortgage Pre-Approval Protects Both Your Head and Your Heart

By Tanya Toye • May 20, 2026
Why a Mortgage Pre-Approval Protects Both Your Head and Your Heart There’s no denying it—buying a home is an emotional journey. In a competitive market, it can feel like you need to stretch beyond your comfort zone or bid above asking just to have a chance. That pressure can make it hard to separate what you want from what you can realistically afford. One of the biggest pitfalls buyers face is falling in love with a home that’s outside their price range. Once that happens, every other property seems like a compromise—even the ones that might have been a perfect fit otherwise. The best way to avoid this heartache? Get pre-approved before you start shopping. What a Pre-Approval Does for You A mortgage pre-approval gives you more than just a number—it provides clarity, confidence, and protection: Know your buying power : Shop within your true price range and avoid disappointment. Spot potential roadblocks : Uncover issues like credit bureau errors before you make an offer. Get organized : Learn exactly what documentation you’ll need so there are no surprises. Lock in a rate : Many lenders hold your rate for 30–120 days, giving you peace of mind if rates rise. Save yourself heartache : Protect yourself from falling for a home you can’t afford. Head vs. Heart Buying a home is about balance. Your head tells you what’s financially sound, your heart tells you what feels right—and both matter. A pre-approval helps bring those two sides together, so you can make confident choices without emotional stress clouding your judgment. The Bottom Line Looking at properties for fun is one thing—but if you’re serious about buying, a pre-approval is the smartest first step you can take. It sets realistic expectations, saves time, and protects your emotions along the way. If you’d like to explore your options and get pre-approved, I’d be happy to walk through the process with you. Let’s make sure you’re ready to shop with confidence.