Divorce and Your Mortgage: What You Need to Know

Tanya Toye • December 3, 2025

Going Through a Separation? Here’s What You Need to Know About Your Mortgage 
Separation or divorce can be one of life’s most stressful transitions—and when real estate is involved, the financial side of things can get complicated fast. If you and your partner own a home together, figuring out what happens next with your mortgage is a critical step in moving forward.


Here’s what you need to know:


You’re Still Responsible for Mortgage Payments

Even if your relationship changes, your obligation to your mortgage lender doesn’t. If your name is on the mortgage, you’re fully responsible for making sure payments continue. Missed payments can lead to penalties, damage your credit, or even put your home at risk of foreclosure.


If you relied on your partner to handle payments during the relationship, now is the time to take a proactive role. Contact your lender directly to confirm everything is on track.


Breaking or Changing Your Mortgage Comes With Costs

Dividing your finances might mean refinancing, removing someone from the title, or selling the home. All of these options come with potential legal fees, appraisal costs, and mortgage penalties—especially if you’re mid-term with a fixed-rate mortgage.


Before making any decisions, speak with your lender to get a clear picture of the potential costs. This info can be helpful when finalizing your separation agreement.


Legal Status Affects Financing

If you're applying for a new mortgage after a separation, lenders will want to see official documentation—like a signed separation agreement or divorce decree. These documents help the lender assess any ongoing financial obligations like child or spousal support, which may impact your ability to qualify.


No paperwork yet? Expect delays and added scrutiny in the mortgage process until everything is finalized.


Qualifying on One Income Can Be Tougher

Many couples qualify for mortgages based on combined income. After a separation, your borrowing power may decrease if you're now applying solo. This can affect your ability to buy a new home or stay in the one you currently own.


A mortgage professional can help you reassess your financial picture and identify options that make sense for your situation—whether that means buying on your own, co-signing with a family member, or exploring government programs.


Buying Out Your Partner? You May Have Extra Flexibility

In cases where one person wants to stay in the home, lenders may offer special flexibility. Unlike traditional refinancing, which typically caps borrowing at 80% of the home’s value, a “spousal buyout” may allow you to access up to 95%—making it easier to compensate your former partner and retain the home.


This option is especially useful for families looking to minimize disruption for children or maintain community ties.


You Don’t Have to Figure It Out Alone

Separation is never simple—but with the right support, you can move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether you’re keeping the home, selling, or starting fresh, working with a mortgage professional can help you understand your options and create a strategy that aligns with your new goals.


Let’s talk through your situation and explore the best path forward. I’m here to help.


Tanya Toye

Mortgage Broker

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Deposit vs. Down Payment: Key Differences for Homebuyers

By Tanya Toye • September 23, 2026
When you’re buying a home, two terms often cause confusion: deposit and down payment . While they’re related, they serve very different purposes in the homebuying process. Here’s what you need to know. What Is a Deposit? A deposit is the money you provide when you make an offer on a property. Think of it as a show of good faith that proves you’re serious about purchasing. How it works : Typically, you provide a certified cheque or bank draft that your real estate brokerage holds in trust. If your offer is accepted, the deposit remains in trust until the deal moves forward. If negotiations fall through, the deposit is refunded. Connection to your down payment : Once the sale is finalized, your deposit becomes part of your total down payment. Why it matters : The amount is negotiable, but a larger deposit can make your offer more attractive in a competitive market. Keep in mind, however, that if you back out after conditions are removed, you risk losing your deposit. What Is a Down Payment? Your down payment is the amount you contribute toward the purchase price of your home when securing a mortgage. Minimum requirement : In Canada, the minimum down payment is 5% of the home’s purchase price. Anything less than 20% requires mortgage default insurance. Sources : Down payments can come from your savings, the sale of another property, RRSP withdrawals (through the Home Buyers’ Plan), a gift from family, or even borrowed funds. Example: How They Work Together Imagine you’re buying a $400,000 home with a 10% down payment ($40,000). When you make your offer, you provide a $10,000 deposit . Once conditions are met, that deposit is transferred to your lawyer’s trust account. At closing, you add the remaining $30,000 to complete your full down payment. The lender provides the rest—$360,000—through your mortgage. The Bottom Line Your deposit shows commitment and secures your offer, while your down payment is what makes the mortgage possible. Together, they work hand in hand to get you into your new home. 📞 If you’d like clarity on deposits, down payments, or any other part of the mortgage process, let’s connect. I’d be happy to walk you through it step by step.
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Self-Employed? Let’s Get You Qualified for a Mortgage

By Tanya Toye • September 16, 2026
Being self-employed comes with plenty of advantages, including the ability to structure your business how you choose and claim expenses to reduce your taxable income. But, when it comes time to apply for a mortgage, those same tax strategies can sometimes make qualifying more complicated. One of the first considerations is how your business is structured. There can be differences in how lenders assess income for someone who is incorporated compared with someone who operates as a sole proprietor or partnership. Depending on the lender and the circumstances, income may be reviewed using personal tax returns, corporate financial statements or a combination of documents. Another important factor is the level of business write-offs you claim. As a business owner, reducing your taxable income can make good financial sense. However, a lower reported income can also mean a lower qualifying income when a lender assesses your mortgage application. This can create a frustrating situation where you may have strong cashflow and the ability to comfortably afford the mortgage, but your tax returns don’t necessarily tell the whole story. That doesn’t automatically mean you need to start declaring significantly more income and paying substantially more to the CRA just so you can qualify for a mortgage. Alternative mortgage solutions may be a great option Depending on your circumstances, there may be alternative mortgage solutions available that take a broader view of your financial situation. Some lenders have different approaches to self-employed income and may be able to consider additional documentation or alternate methods of demonstrating your ability to repay the mortgage.  This can create an important financial decision for self-employed borrowers. Is it more beneficial to pay additional taxes to show a higher income or consider a mortgage option with a higher interest rate that may allow you to qualify based on your existing financial structure? There isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer. The right approach depends on your income, business structure, financial goals, credit profile, down payment and how long you expect to be in that mortgage. The key is to have the conversation before you make changes to how you report your income. A mortgage broker who understands self-employed borrowers can help you explore your options and compare the potential costs of different approaches. Instead of assuming you need to change the way you run your business to qualify for a mortgage, it may be worth looking at the lending solutions available to you first. Being self-employed shouldn’t automatically make getting a mortgage more difficult. It just means your mortgage strategy may need to be as individual as your business. Let’s discuss your options. 604-788-8693 | tanya@tanyatoye.ca