Helping Your Children Buy Their First Home

Tanya Toye • October 24, 2025

For many parents, assisting your kid with becoming a first-time homebuyer feels like a natural next step – especially in today’s housing market, where affordability challenges make entering the market more difficult than ever. But, while the instinct to help is admirable, the decision must be treated as a financial strategy, not an emotional one. Understanding the different ways to assist – and the implications of each – can help parents make informed, rational choices that protect everyone involved.


Here are three key ways you can help your children enter the property market:

  1. Gifted down payment. A gift is the most straightforward option. You provide funds to help with the down payment, which can increase affordability and reduce mortgage insurance costs. Pros: Simple structure – no ongoing liability for parents; Improves your kid’s qualification strength and purchasing power. Cons: You have no legal or financial ownership in the property; The funds must truly be a gift – not a loan – which means you should be prepared to part with that money permanently. 

  2. Co-Signing on the mortgage. A co-signer shares legal responsibility for the mortgage. Your income and credit help your kid qualify for a larger loan. Pros: Helps your child qualify when their income alone isn’t sufficient; May secure better rates or terms. Cons: You’re equally liable for payments; Any missed payment affects both parties’ credit; Can complicate your future borrowing power. 

  3. Acting as a guarantor. A guarantor promises to step in if the borrower defaults, but doesn’t share ownership or contribute to payments unless necessary. Pros: Provides lender security without joint title ownership; Less immediate financial involvement than co-signing. Cons: Still carries significant risk if your kid defaults; Can limit your future borrowing capacity.


Keep emotions out of your decision

Buying a home is emotional enough, but helping your kid buy one shouldn’t be. Parents must look beyond the desire to “make it easier” for your child and carefully assess your own financial position, retirement plans and risk tolerance. The best support isn’t always financial – sometimes it’s helping your kid plan, budget and make sound borrowing decisions.


Helping your child purchase a home can be rewarding, but it has to be made as a financial decision first. Understanding the structure, risk and long-term implications of each option outlined above ensures the help you offer today doesn’t create challenges tomorrow – for you or your kid.


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